Let's face it--stroking your cock is one of your favorite pastimes! You've been jacking off for a long time. You're not going to stop anytime soon. And sure, you probably still enjoy orgasms quite a bit.
But aren't things getting a little boring?
It's good to change things up every once in a while. Try different strokes, try a toy or two, supplement your masturbation by involving new erogenous zones, and of course, there's edging.
But maybe what you really need is to introduce a little risk to the result. An orgasm gamble of sorts. Make the end of your stroking sessions a bit less predictable. After all, even when you employ the above suggestions, you're still assuming the end will be the same.
"But Goddess Rachel, there aren't a whole lot of choices. If I rub My dick, eventually I'm going to cum. That's just how it works."
Not necessarily, stroke boy!
That may be how it works if you leave the ending up to yourself alone. But if you wanted to do that, you wouldn't have ended up in these environs, would you?
If nothing else, you came looking for ways to turn control of your masturbation over to a dominant woman. And if you turn over control of, not just your masturbation, but your orgasm, to ME, a masturbatrix with a bit of a sadistic streak and a taste for erotic humiliation, the end of O/ur guided masturbation session is definitely not a given.
There are three classic options: A full-on ball-draining orgasm (after a number of edges that satisfy Me of course), and on the other end of the spectrum, flat-out denial.
But then there's also the delicious purgatory of the ruined orgasm. I direct your strokes, and then, when you simply can't hold back that load anymore, the moment of truth arrives. The spine-tingling suspense. I'm bringing you so close, surely I'm going to let you cum!
And instead, I direct you to employ one of several techniques intended to disrupt things, leaving Me cackling with schadenfreude, and leaving you feeling blue-balled, frustrated, and oftentimes, even hornier than before!
Depending on how your body works, W/e can play several rounds of ruined orgasm roulette!
Some strokers stay hard and horny after I destroy their "O". Sometimes that means they can still stroke, and even edge, but can't ejaculate again. Sometimes that means I get as many chances to ruin your orgasm as the sustainability of your erection and arousal allows!
But if you're a one-and-done, well, that's just the way the cookie crumbles! You tuck that cock back in for a nap, and I bask in the endorphin rush I get from your groans of disappointment!
The important thing is, I'll be entertained and pleased no matter how things turn out!
Perhaps you'll learn a whole new appreciation for getting to blow your load without restriction! Or maybe you'll be one of the few who finds ruined orgasms so pleasurable, you'll return to Me again and again to make sure you never go back to a predictable cumshot. by Ms. Ryan of www.weruinorgasms.com Obviously, the Mistresses on this site–myself included–talk about ruined orgasms a lot. It’s to be expected, of course, because this site is completely dedicated to the subject. But while it’s understood that we all enjoy ruining men’s orgasms, have you ever wondered why that might be? Well, I can only speak for myself, but I’ll be happy to tell you my thoughts on the subject. You see, I believe in Female Superiority. It’s similar to Female Supremacy, but it’s not exactly the same. What it *does* mean, though, is that certain things that women can consider rights are things that must only be privileges for men. I’ll elaborate. When it comes to, say, the topic of orgasms, I believe that nearly all women should be able to have one whenever they want, for the most part. It’s not an unreasonable desire, and it should never be considered absurd for them to expect their partners to help them along if they would like some assistance. On the other hand, orgasms for men are not a right. They’re a privilege. Male orgasms have to be earned. They’re a reward, if you will. So if you haven’t earned the privilege, then you won’t get to have one. That’s simply the way it works in my world. But constant denial can get boring, both for you and for me. Also…consider this. Imagine that you have completed a task for me and are hoping to get your reward. But then, when I look closely at what you’ve done, I find that while you’ve technically done what I asked, you haven’t done it in a way that is satsifactory to me. Sure, I could reprimand you for your sloppy work and have you do it all over again until you get it right. I could also tell you that I’m displeased and continue your period of denial. But there is something that will get my point across in a way that nothing else will, and that is ruining your orgasm. If you’ve only done a half-arsed job, then you only get a half-arsed orgasm. That seems fair, doesn’t it? It’s the sort of thing that sticks with a man and a lesson he won’t soon forget. He’ll know, on a visceral level, the same sort of disappointment that I did when I realised that he did a shoddy job. Of course, I don’t always ruin orgasms as a punishment or a penalty, though it’s true that there are times when you simply don’t deserve a real orgasm. Sometimes I do it just for fun. You men make such delightful noises when you think you’re going to be allowed to cum, only to have it pulled away from you at the very last second. I would never deny myself the pleasure of hearing them. As you can see, a ruined orgasm is just another one of the many tools in my arsenal…but it’s one that I really do enjoy using! Rachel
Email me at Rachel@EnchantrixEmpire.com
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