What Does Ruining Orgasms Do For a Mistress?

When you see people discussing ruining orgasms online, you usually see lots of things written from the sub’s perspective or from the perspective of a Mistress who’s thinking about the effect a ruined orgasm has on her sub.

You see things like, “Ruined orgasms make men more obedient and submissive. ” Or, “They remind him of who’s in charge in the relationship.” Also, “It’s a great way to allow him to get off (since some release of semen is required for a man’s continued good health) while still keeping him completely frustrated.” And, so on.

But what you see a lot less of is commentary about what Mistresses and Masturbatrices get out of ruining men’s orgasms. So let’s talk about that today, shall we?

Why Women Enjoy Ruining Orgasms

Honestly, a woman may get a lot of things out of ruining her husband/boyfriend/sub’s orgasm.  But here are some of the many things that I think we get out of it.

First up is the fact that many of us who like ruination are also heavily into cock teasing and tease and denial. And no matter how interesting and exciting we find those things, the truth is that too much of the same thing–even things we love!–can get a little dull at times.

So ruining dudes’ orgasms is a way for us to spice up our teasing routines without actually giving the ruinee any real pleasure out of it. It all goes back to the thing about ruined orgasms often being just as frustrating as no orgasm at all!

Secondly, ruination is also about power. A Masturbatrix knows that she can get you guys to ruin your own orgasms at our command. All the while knowing how much it’s going to totally suck for you. Not going to lie – it gives us such a rush.

Anytime you can get someone to do something that goes against their own best interests, simply because you told them to, is a time that’s going to make you feel incredibly powerful. And that’s something that just can’t be overlooked when it comes to discussing ruination!

It’s Fun To Be Capricious

And thirdly, let’s not discount the sheer entertainment value, either. Let’s be real. It’s fun to be capricious sometimes.  To do something to a guy (or have him do something to himself) just because we said so.

The sounds of his frustration and his begging and so forth can be like music to our ruiners’ ears.  And it’s pretty hilarious just knowing that we can elicit those reactions from a guy anytime we want.  Simply by ruining his orgasm.

I’m sure there are many, many other reasons why a woman would like ruining a man’s orgasm, but these are, in my opinion, some of the main ones.

So just remember, guys, when we ruin orgasms, we’re getting just as much–if not more–out of it than you are. And you should definitely be grateful for that fact.  Because it ensures that we will continue our ruining ways for a long, long time to come!