I have made a habit of not hiding my love for and enjoyment of ruined orgasms. I'm sure this has led to some people deciding that I must be just the meanest, cruelest, most harsh woman to ever exist, but I swear I'm really nice! I love helping you ruin your orgasm because it's a method that can accomplish so many very fun things for you! From helping you learn to have multiple orgasms, to cumming completely untouched, or even as a way to reassert your submissive nature, there's a lot to love about a ruined orgasm.
Last reason first: you don't deserve a full orgasm because you're a submissive bitch and I want to remind you of that fact. Or maybe I just want to exert control over you and your cock in a way that will leave you frustrated, sore, and horny for the rest of the day while you think of me and wish you could finish for real. Both of those ideas are really appealing to me, and make me just so happy to contemplate. I love knowing that you'll be sitting there with massive blue balls and thinking of me at the most inappropriate moments. Middle of a staff meeting, trying to compose an email to a work colleague, contemplating what you'll have for dinner... and boom! Thinking of me and what I had you do! Fuck that's hot.
Some people who experience ruined orgasms can maintain their arousal and cum a second time, or even a third! There have been a few times I've managed to surprise a caller with that reaction, and it is solid gold good every time. Ruin the first orgasm for me, and then keep going, through the over-stimulation and frustration, and let the arousal build until you cum again for me. That second cum will be so much more overwhelming and powerful! I've had guys cry over it, which, yes please, do that. I love it when you let go completely. One ruined orgasm can lead to hours and hours of fun afterward!
While ruined orgasms can be done in a mean and domineering way, I hope you've realized by now that I have what we like to call 'range'. I can be mean, but I can be very sweet and kind about how I'm definitely going to ruin your orgasm for your own good, too. Not all ruined sessions have to end in tears and frustration, even if most of them do, in one way or another. Sometimes you may just want a little reminder in your day that you're a submissive slut whose Mistress owns them completely and utterly and won't let them have a full orgasm. I'd love to own you completely, and deny you a full release! You'll be thinking of me for the rest of the day, but I'll also be thinking of you.
Bring me your arousal and I'll double it and leave you so horny and turned on you can't even think. It'll be fun for both of us! by Ms. Ryan of www.weruinorgasms.com Obviously, the Mistresses on this site–myself included–talk about ruined orgasms a lot. It’s to be expected, of course, because this site is completely dedicated to the subject. But while it’s understood that we all enjoy ruining men’s orgasms, have you ever wondered why that might be? Well, I can only speak for myself, but I’ll be happy to tell you my thoughts on the subject. You see, I believe in Female Superiority. It’s similar to Female Supremacy, but it’s not exactly the same. What it *does* mean, though, is that certain things that women can consider rights are things that must only be privileges for men. I’ll elaborate. When it comes to, say, the topic of orgasms, I believe that nearly all women should be able to have one whenever they want, for the most part. It’s not an unreasonable desire, and it should never be considered absurd for them to expect their partners to help them along if they would like some assistance. On the other hand, orgasms for men are not a right. They’re a privilege. Male orgasms have to be earned. They’re a reward, if you will. So if you haven’t earned the privilege, then you won’t get to have one. That’s simply the way it works in my world. But constant denial can get boring, both for you and for me. Also…consider this. Imagine that you have completed a task for me and are hoping to get your reward. But then, when I look closely at what you’ve done, I find that while you’ve technically done what I asked, you haven’t done it in a way that is satsifactory to me. Sure, I could reprimand you for your sloppy work and have you do it all over again until you get it right. I could also tell you that I’m displeased and continue your period of denial. But there is something that will get my point across in a way that nothing else will, and that is ruining your orgasm. If you’ve only done a half-arsed job, then you only get a half-arsed orgasm. That seems fair, doesn’t it? It’s the sort of thing that sticks with a man and a lesson he won’t soon forget. He’ll know, on a visceral level, the same sort of disappointment that I did when I realised that he did a shoddy job. Of course, I don’t always ruin orgasms as a punishment or a penalty, though it’s true that there are times when you simply don’t deserve a real orgasm. Sometimes I do it just for fun. You men make such delightful noises when you think you’re going to be allowed to cum, only to have it pulled away from you at the very last second. I would never deny myself the pleasure of hearing them. As you can see, a ruined orgasm is just another one of the many tools in my arsenal…but it’s one that I really do enjoy using! 
Harper
Email me at Harper@enchantrixempire.com
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